Vaidehi Bhargava
Bhai Dooj, celebrated two days after Diwali, is a significant Hindu festival that honors the bond between brothers and sisters. Known as “Bhaiya Dooj” in North India, “Bhau Beej” in Maharashtra, and “Bhai Phonta” in Bengal, this festival is a day for sisters to pray for their brothers’ long lives and well-being.
One popular legend associated with Bhai Dooj is that of Lord Yama, the god of death, and his sister, Yamuna. According to the story, Yamuna longed to see her brother, but he rarely visited due to his duties. Finally, on a request, Yama visited her, and she welcomed him with great affection, performing rituals for his well-being. Touched by her love, Yama blessed her with protection and, in return, promised to visit every year. This day is celebrated as Bhai Dooj, where brothers and sisters honor their bond. Another story links Bhai Dooj to Lord Krishna visiting his sister Subhadra after defeating the demon Narakasura. Subhadra welcomed him with a tilak and sweets, marking the basis of the festival’s rituals.
Bhai Dooj holds deep cultural significance, emphasizing the bond of love, care, and protection between siblings. It is a reminder for brothers and sisters to stand by each other through life’s challenges. Sisters pray for their brothers’ prosperity and long lives, while brothers pledge to protect and support their sisters. The festival reinforces family bonds and symbolizes love, blessings, and the mutual duty of care.
On Bhai Dooj, sisters invite their brothers for a special ceremony, where they apply a “tilak” (vermilion mark) on their foreheads, offer prayers, and perform aarti to ward off evil and ensure their brothers’ safety. They also prepare a variety of traditional sweets and dishes as part of the celebration. In return, brothers give gifts as tokens of appreciation, often promising to protect their sisters. Some families exchange small ceremonial gifts, and it’s common to share the day with a family meal or gathering, symbolizing unity and love.
Bhai Dooj is a day of joyous celebration, fostering familial love and dedication, making it a beautiful end to the Diwali festivities